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If you’re following me (not a lot of people, but still), I frequently get pissed when people misuse my gender, name, or pronouns as to what I don't identify with. Long story short: most of my close friends do not use my PGPs, forget (somehow) that I’m trans, assume it’s “just a phase” (and if it is, that’s my business, not yours), purposefully use my old terms because “It’s easier”, or some combination of the above. I’m really dysphoric today, so seeing all these gifs just kind of fueled the fire more. 

My sex at this very moment may be male, but I identify as a woman and I use female pronouns. My birth name may be Ryan, but it really makes my day if you call me by my name: Ryanne. It’s bad enough that I have to put “Male” and “Ryan” on every document and assignment, please, do me the fucking courtesy of supporting me.

By now you may wondering, ‘how is this an apology’? Let me clarify. I’m not apologizing for want I’ve said I’m apologizing to 3 specific people:

1. Apologizing to all of the AMAZING trans, agender, or gender fluid people out there feeling the same pain as me: WE CAN GET THROUGH THIS… TOGETHER!

2. All of you who aren’t transgender, agender, or gender fluid: being cisgendered is a privilege! Sorry for bursting your bubble of an ideal world, but it isn’t about you and what is “easy”. Show us the respect we deserve, now.

3. Last but not least, and apology to future Ryanne. You’re going to be an amazing woman someday, and I’m sorry I’m putting through all this bullshit just so I can be happy. I love you.

  • Mood: Isolated
  • Listening to: Pop, rock, and country
  • Reading: not much these days I'm afraid
  • Watching: MLP, SU, DW, and MM
  • Playing: PKMN, LoL, and BL2/BL:TPS
  • Eating: comfort food
  • Drinking: mostly water


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drinkyourvegetable Featured By Owner Jul 30, 2015
Thanks for the favorite :3
Cama-Papa-Dapyon Featured By Owner Jun 24, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Thanx a lot for the fav !
cb350four Featured By Owner May 31, 2015
Thank you for the favsLove 
ElvenBacon Featured By Owner May 2, 2015
Thanks U for fav :3
Bakenekomimi Featured By Owner Apr 28, 2015
Thanks for the fav!
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